Monday, February 1, 2010

Money Tree Baby Is It Wrong To Ask For Money At A Baby Shower...plz Read Details...?

Is it wrong to ask for money at a baby shower...plz read details...? - money tree baby

My daughter gave birth to 2 weeks prior to a beautiful girl. However, my daughter had no idea he was preggars (If this happens, the strange, but it does)

Within a week we could all you need one more child ... Now they do not want to get more start saving ... would be a mistake to make a money tree?

5 comments:

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If it normal for a baby shower "normal pregancy - I would say extremely rude to ask for money

BUT

This is not a normal situation. Prem babies can have a lifetime of challenges to help the family financially immedaite mother can take a lot of pressure on her while she focuses on the needs of babies.

If your family is just - I think it's a very good idea, a loving grandmother.

Ignoring it can assess all the bad reviews - people very quickly and without considering the totality of the facts.

Sending good thoughts and best wishes to his daughter and granddaughter:)

Pale Cheeked Angel said...

It is a mistake to believe that people bring a gift for a baby at all showers. Yes, most people normally do, but it is wrong to ask for gifts and money for his daughter.

If you ask what your child needs to say so casually that it is almost everything you need us, and intends that person, a savings startup account for the baby, so that people can change the proposal received, but if not that speaks against them.

Mindy W said...

I think it's a little sticky. Especially since they already said everything you need. Do not ask me for money. I just want to take a shower and a real "no gifts please" on the cards. This way you can celebrate without the bad, and if people really want to give something to their discretion. If I knew someone who all had what they needed, but asked for money for the savings to laugh! Seriously, I think it is rude and greedy. Are the parents / grandparents are working to save money for future things.

I think the other poster had an idea of things about the donation to the March of Dimes BTW.

MaMaBEAR said...

I want to say on the invitation: "You are invited to baby shower RESP _______ Baby - All funds in the shower to collect the contributions into their Savings Plan for Education - Please give the gift of education" - How the PPL can say where the money goes, and is uncomfortable at any time for PPL, if I do not want to participate themselves.

Elizabet... said...

I think savings bonds would call baby's name would be more suitable. Or donate to charities like The March of Dimes and St. Jew Children's Research Hospital, in the opinion of organizations, the type of work you if your baby is not alive.

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